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It was my first time ever attending a blogger conference and I did not know what to expect. I met Ella during lunch and she was so open and approachable. We kept in touch and then lost touchBut at the , we picked up where we left off and she shared with me such a thoughtful and insightful lesson that she learned about friendship, love, sisterhood, and being a dating mother within that year. Here is what she learned and what she taught me. It hurts when we lose our friends. And not just date.

Do you have literature review? All false. We are just as human as you. We also just have more sense when choosing the next male in our life. You are absolutely right there are dead beat dads out there. Afterall, the woman picked the dead beat to begin with. This is a whole-hearted reflection of her self-judgement. All the other forms you better run. I have a idiot beta male cousin, he married a double single mother. My aunt died right away. I dont know if depression of suicide or poisoning, but something happened.

Sometime the beta isnt aware the disgusting disappointment he is causing. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed. Likewise, you can find a mother whose ass fills a pair of spandex pants like a gallon of water satisfies a man about to die of thirst in the desert. Whatever happens, it remains a smokescreen. In addition, almost every single human being on this planet lets themselves go after having children. They cannot easily coordinate earning an income if they even dotending to a growing household, and caring for children with physical maintenance or self-improvement.

And if they do coordinate it somewhat, it is at a subpar, barely functioning level. Yet the mea-culpa-for-straying press conferences you see are of Tiger Woods and not Kristen Stewart. It is into this maelstrom of female self-entitlement that the prospective boyfriend of a single mother walks.

Not only do you have all the crap involved with the biological father of the child, which the mother usually does nothing to mitigate, you also must deal with the shell of a woman whose malformed relationship strategies remain firmly intact.

The world is full of women who have never told a man they were to blame for the end of a previous relationship. Having a child only compounds the problems associated with this distinct lack of self-awareness. Unless you are pile-driving a doctor, lawyer or someone else similarly well-positioned who has a child or two, your courtship with a single mother is a financial drain on you just waiting to happen.

Oh wait, it already is. You will be either bailing her out outright or accepting much lower financial and other material contributions from her. And for what? The vast majority of people in the world, whether male, female, black, white, or blue, do not change in their lifetimes beyond extremely narrow limits. The ultimate purpose of being in a relationship with someone in my book is marriage, and being married to a single mother means having to share the financial burden of raising the children.

The messed up thing is if the relationship ends, then there is the risk of having to pay out child support to children who aren't even mine. The risk and effort is just not worth it. I have, and will always continue to avoid single mothers like the plague. You made that up No man pays child support for kids that were already there before they even dated unless they choose to.

Some men raise kids and consider them theirs too. Glad there are wonderful em out there like that. I know of a case in New Mexico and a couple in California where a man was forced to pay child support for not his own spawn. Avoid single moms, make the wrong decision and there is a chance you will be financially gutted and made to support her kids.

Wow what a bunch of negative people!

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This post is wrong! As for all you trolls, you're nothing but a bottom feeder living with mommy with a bottle of lotion on his night stand! Grow up. I won't date a single mum for the simple reason that i raised my son on my own, he's grown up now and it's all about me these days, as i've done my part in raising my OWN kid. I have my own business, very financially independent, play sports and have a busy life. There is no way i would jeapordise that for anything or anyone, as i worked hard for everything i've got these days.

I'd prefer to date someone who has had kids, but they're grown up now. I just believe that you should be raising your own kids, not someone else's!

On the balance of probabilities - dating a single mother is not going to result in a happy outcome for you. They are in the minority. Put simply. Why take the risk?

Ok help please, I have been with my single mom for almost ten months, and in that period I have provided ultimate security for her and her two children a house new car vacations etc etc etc. I have met her needs completely she doesn't have to work she takes care of the kids full time and has no worries. She has two kids and the father has not been in there lives for quite some time doesn't send money no phone calls on birthday or holidays, nothing.

The point of my post is because I'm doing all this because I love them but they treat me "like a complete piece of trash" the kids come first which is the way that it should be but I come last completely and I mean I'm the soul provider for these kids and there mom and they treat me like if I was a bum and didn't do nothing for them.

I think I'm about to jump ship here what do I do? Is this the perks of dating a single mom? We're on vacation now and it feels like I'm just a walking ATM and they don't even care that I'm here. I am sorry that is happening to you but no that is not the perks of dating a single mom unfortunately you've found one of the ones described in this post but coming from a single mom there are some of us that do want the LOVE AND AFFECTION of a good man not his money and assets it just depends on the character of the female to whom you choose to date.

Gut instinct? You're a mother with a son. One day he announces he's met a single mother who he's going to be seeing a lot more of.

Are you happy for him? Like this post Lots of well put comments. It's even got trolls calling people trolls : Seems to be on the side of avoid single mothers. Another single mommy throwing out the old shaming tactic that we guys who, very wisely, reject the idea that a relationship with a single mom is beneficial to any man simply and absolutely MUST be living in our mommy's basement and sadly alone. So typical. No, no. It couldn't be that we wise men have a sizable K that we wise men will retire with and enjoy all our days.

It surely isn't that we wise men may own our own home and not want single mommy - who left the father of her children and often took his assets - to get her grubby paws on our home and take it from us. No way it could be that I make a sizable paycheck that I don't want expected by her to buy, buy, buy for she and her kids by another man while I get no return on that financial investment, and also provide another asset for her to take from me when - most likely - she initiates a divorce as she most likely did with her ex.

It certainly must not be that the guy doesn't live in his own home, gets to date childless women who don't have rugrats to interrupt the dates or sex. It absolutely cannot be that the wise guy is smart enough to know that single mommy brings piles of debts and drama to the relationship that would likely be challengin g without the extra baggage.

No, no single mommy declares it, and so it must be such that any guy who is wise to call out single mommy's messes as they are and call HER to deal with HER OWN mess, that guy must be a "man child" living in mommy's basement. Sure, single mommy, sure. I highly recommend consulting a family law attorney, because laws and court climates differ from place to place.

There is a chance you'll be ordered to pay support to this woman and her children even though the kids aren't yours and even if you haven't married her.

Not even presents, unless they are independent adults. The holidays are here, so Only refer to it as mine. Really, you should stop having sex with her immediately. You need to get out of the situation. Ten months is not so long that the kids will be traumatized, but it still might be good to announce your departure from the situation in a "family" therapy situation, or at least a couples counseling session.

If you're living with her, get some buddies to help you get your stuff out of there unless it is your house when she and the kids are not there. Ideally, you should have some other place of your own all ready for you, but if not, use storage and a friend's place. This is true. There are genuinely nice guys out there obviously not you, the blogs author, or half these morons commenting.

Single mons have to be extra careful of who we let in our lives. Think single mom's aren't good enough to date? Thanks for making it easier to pick you out. What an idiot, single women have no right to "pick out" men, no man is lining up for a whore who cold not keep her legs closed to the wrong man Showing that negative bitter attitude does nothing to calm the single mom stigma. It all comes down to preference. The fact is taking on a single mom, you are exponentially increasing that risk with the kids, exes, in-laws etc.

Not to mention the sudden life style change for a single guy with no kids to all of a sudden take on all that. That's just asking for drama and future therapy sessions.

Single mom's are bad news Women don't get it. Divorce laws are really out dated. Boys plenty of women with no children out there! Excellent blog, and totally spot-on! I live and blog about an area called The White Trash Mecca. Here, we have thousands upon thousands of single mothers, and I can count on one hand the number I've seen that would even be worthy of dating.

Worst of the worst. Unfortunately, there are absolutely no women here past the age of 18 without kids, so lots of good guys simply have to be some single and go their own way.

You weren't her first choice of a man. She chose somebody else. Some guys just don't get it. I am a single mom because of domestic violence. I fianlly had the courage to leave my abuser with my two little ones. It was the hardest thing I've ever done. I ended up in a homeless shelter. Now I have my own car, apartment, and good career and have absolutely no help from anyone. I am the sole provider for my little family and I am prpud of that. Everytime i put food on the table or pay my rent and bills, I feel a great sence of empowerment.

I've made my share of mistakes and I know I probably don't deserve to find love again. I understand that in most cases, this article sadly speaks the truth.

I also know sometimes there are are exeptions. For now I am happy and am not looking for love. I think that is the trick for ANY relationship. You have to be completely content with who you are ALONE instead of looking for someone to 'complete you'. You don't 'need' a man, but it would be beautiful to love again and be loved in a different way than your kids love you. Great job on recovering after such a hard life blow. Your kids are blessed to have you for a mother and any man that does find himself in your good graces is lucky to have you.

Silvana, sorry but you got pregnant with an abusive guy, dumb, 2 times? Are you serious, what is wrong with people like you? Should have aborted the first and left immediately, but i bet he said he loved you while hitting you and your not smart enough to distinguish between which was true, if thats the case you let it happen and got what you were asking for.

I bet because of how you are your letting him off without child support payments and he doesnt even have to spend time with the bastards. Feel powerful all you want but these are the traits of a doormat not a strong woman! What do you think of this article being called 'why you shouldn't date NEEDY people' instead of just single moms.

There are plenty of single mom's who are very independent and don't NEED another man. Unfortunately, many single mom's are struggling. But why only women? What if the tables were flipped? Would you still be making the same comments? Silvana- First of all, congratulations for wising up and protecting yourself and your children from an abuser. And congrats on your success since. It is not a matter of "deserving" love or not. I hope you find all the love you want once your kids are raised.

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Having done so well for yourself, you'll be in a much better position than someone who acts out of desperation. As to your second comment I have no idea what it is like to date a guy, let alone a single father. However, many of the same principles apply. A man with minor children should not be introducing any new lovers of his to those children. The "needy people" idea is a good one. If someone is dating for marriage, they should not fool themselves. Marriage is largely a business matter, and it doesn't make sense to go into business with someone who has a bad track record.

A lot of men aren't raising kids alone because courts won't give them custody, because they have a penis. Another reason, for other men, is that they never wanted to be a father in the first place. It turned out to be a matter of "her body, her choice".

His choices ended far before hers did.

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Yes, such men are foolish to risk the possibility of pregnancy in the first place. Why are there far more articles advicing against dating single moms but not single dads? Ariel, if you mean on this blog, it is because this blog is a male perspective. I make it clear on this blog that parents of minor children, regardless of their sex, should not introduce their new lover s to their minor children.

Thanks for spreading the truth Ken! Yes anyone, unless otherwise widowed, who has children out of wedlock are irresponsible and should be avoided with all cost.

I suggest they met and marry someone like themselves. Ken everything you said is spot on and this is the reason why the matriarch of traditional families are deteriorating.

I've been there and done it twice, shame on me, there will not be a third time. I tried to get these women a chance and I learned the same thing twice. Don't even get to know them. Single parenting is unnatural. Thanks for responding Ken. I appreciate your input. It is fair to point out that it takes 2 to make a baby. Very simple statement but we really understood what that meant, we would probably not judge single mom's or women who have decided to have an abortion.

I'm not saying your judging, you seem like a decent guy. I'm just saying that overall. Men should be equally responsible for either deciding to keep their child or kill them or give them away. But sadly it usually the women who carry the proof not men. It's also usually women who will fight for their kids, not men. I don't see many men fighting to have FULL custody of their kids, it's not very common.

In my case I was sexually assaulted and I decided to keep my baby and move forward. Now I am a single mom but no one in my life knows what really happened. I get judgemental comments all that time, and it hurts deeply. So I guess the moral of the story is don't jump to conclusions or judge. You never know the real story of how one ended up a single mom.

Shut up, who cares? I can't hear myself over your griping! Single moms are only datable when they admit that they screwed up!

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I'm divorced right now, i married a single mom and that is one of the biggest mistakes that I have done on my life! She lie to me about why she end her relationship with the father of her child she told me he cheated on her but the truth was that she cheat on and then she cheat on me! Well she stop taking the pill and lied to me so she got pregnant again, we talked about buying a house and after getting a house she cheat on me so she end up with house for her, her daughter, our two kids, and a third one from her "new" boyfriend she already dumped the guy, and collecting child support!

I learn my lesson, and while any women can be as bad as my ex wife single moms play a totally different game and require a different set of rules to play to not end burn and at loose at the end.

Sounds like you learned the hard way like I did. Messing with single mothers is playing with fire. Smash and dash, only thing they're good for. Hopefully guys read your story and learn from it. I wish someone had schooled me about this shit before I got burned. At the time I probably wouldn't have listened anyway, life's an excellent teacher but this is a lesson that comes at a high cost. This article makes me very sad because I'm a single mother.

I have made my fair share of mistakes, but because of them guys should avoid me like the plague?

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Let me clue you in on what being a single mother has taught me: A I have learned how to not be self centered B I have learned how to be a caring, and nurturing person C I have learned how to be an independent woman The list can go on for days, but I'll stop there.

These are qualities to be admired not mocked. My mind set has changed since I've had my son. When I consider dating I'm now more careful about who I chose to let in my life. I want companionship, I want partnership, I want someone to want me.

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Of course I'm a package deal, but I'm not some washed up money hungry whore looking for some man to support me and my baby. We are doing just fine without a man. You guys need to stop thinking that ALL single mom's are like the type you describe because that's not the case at all. If people's poor choices are deal breakers then I'm sure no one would be in a relationship. I'm a great person with wonderful qualities.

If some guy can't see that because of my "baggage" then he isn't worth being with, and most certainly doesn't deserve me! So go date a single dad and stop bitchsqueeling about single men not wanting your baggage around, damaged goods should date other damaged goods just how it is should have made better choices. Nothing changes the fact that all single moms come with children and that means added costs and inconveniences that women without kids come without so dead side by side comparison women with kids are a far worse decision.

Also single dads may be wrecked souls or whatever but their body wasnt ruined in the process and ive never seen one mom that was made more attractive from having kids so your soul is wrecked and also your body, good luck with that but me and other smart single men are not in for that anyone that is is either desperate or has some other issue since hes wasting his time with you and your kids when he could be out having fun doing whatever whenever with a women without restrictions from children.

Its pretty simple, i dont hate single moms but would never waste time and money on one. Of course not ALL single mothers are this way or that. Not all drunk driving results in a wreck, but I would still urge people not to do it. Overall, it's best not to have a relationship or marry single mother in any case due to many reasons.

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Trust me, I love kid but not in the package deal especially when the biological father doesn't want to take care of his own kid.

This really makes me sick! Guys, listen to the advice in the blog.

Jan 20,   A single mother is one of the biggest narcissists on the dating scene. She often thinks that a man has to drop everything in his life to be part of hers and her kids. They're so selfish they don't think a man has needs, wants or a life of his own. He's just supposed to be there to give her everything she wants in life. Honestly the dangers are nothing really. it all depends on that specific person. but general dangers like her going back to the baby daddy are really slim to none. another danger I guess you can say is be prepared to not be her first priority as her child will be. also you need to have a lot of patience to be around the child. me personally I will not just bring anyone I am dating around my daughter I wait . The Dangers of Dating Single Moms. in Articles. She smart, pretty, and she's looking at you-watch out though, that girl might be dangerous! As of , there are approximately 10 million single moms in the United States-with 57of millennial moms being single. As a millennial man, you must get straight to the point, and find out if she.

It's spot on, I dated a divorced mom with two young boys for 3 years. I met her after I left my marriage at 39, and figured it would be a good fit. She was physically attractive, had fake boobs, a teacher, seemed together, with a good head on her shoulders and good with kids.

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She was a total nightmare dressed as a daydream. Had major daddy issues, and put little value on what I brought to the table as a successful man. I ended up being a disposable accessory. We were amazing together as a couple, but with children together it was a train-wreck.

Made no apologies, and I got treated like garbage. We spent weekends and vacations together, I really got to know and enjoy her boys. The boys father was a total pussy, and quitter. Her boys yearned for a proper man in their life to show them how to build a campfire, pitch a tent, shoot a gun, took them skiing, and mountain biking, to car shows, and how to use a bow and arrow.

I'm a successful entrepreneur, and I even taught the oldest one the basics of starting up a business, and coached him for weeks until he quit. I bent over backwards, spent my time, resources and money on them but got little to nothing in return.

Never a thank-you or a hug. They would act up if they didn't like something, a chore, or discipline. It was almost as thought they knew how to manipulate their mum, and pull out the protective momma bear out of her.

Watch out, momma bear is relentless and totally unreasonable. Their mother never got on the ground with my little girl like I did with her boys, she kept herself at distance with my daughter. I lost time with my daughter I'll never see again because of how I tried to do the right thing and blend a family, and show her boys how to be the man she fell in love with. It ended with her walking out on me during a parenting conflict one morning, and that night she went out with her girlfriend and picked up a young man in a bar and spent the night with him.

She didn't tell me, as we tried to reconcile a week later.

Jan 01,   King Richez posted a video on not dating single mothers which amongst other things says: "She should be focused on her kids - not on penis" - and Richard Cooper's YouTube talk on the Dangers. The danger of being a single, dating mother is that potential mates may meet my child and, if the relationship fails, any bond they would have formed will be severed and my daughter will be hurt. Apr 12,   Cooper explains that single mothers have "Dangerous Personalities." The Oxford English Dictionary defines dangerous as "able or likely to cause harm or injury." In other words, according to Cooper, every single mother has a personality that is "able or likely to cause harm or injury." I agree that every human being is able to cause harm or Mark B. Baer.

But when I found out not long after, it crushed me. To add insult to injury. Another source of hurt came from losing access to her kids. It was like breaking up with 3 people. I love kids, and always wanted a boy. It still hurts 5 months later.

It was the worst, and most painful break up I've ever had. Do yourself a favour guys, if you can avoid a divorced mum with kids, stay away, or at least make damn sure you never take a back seat or take any of the bullshit I tolerated above.

As of earlier today I called it off with a woman i was seeing for a month. She has two kids, one who's a little shit who kicks things and doesnt take orders like go clean your room and a bratty young girl entering her pre-teens she gave birth to this girl in her teens so with these two products of a poor relationship I can only picture the two kids as a cyclone and large lightning ready to take me out.

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But She only has custody of her kids every second week, thus freeing her for a whole week where I can see her. Turns out that she doesnt do anything in her free weeks but dates other guys behind my back, also stringing them along. She also constantly whines about her ex the bio father of those kids just about all the time, even to the point that I yawned in her face felt good doing that. But she would cancel out dates and constantly come out with excuses and when I finally got fed up with the last minute cancellations this article did mention about these she started releasing the evil from her.

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Its like I Interrogated her and the dark truth started coming out and she is acting like she is a bratty 21 year old she is 29 and is just lining unsuspecting nice guys up I somehow give off a nice vibe to these mothers and just leading them on.

This trick gets so old so quick and she'll end up being a single, miserable mother for a long time if she doesnt change her ways. Now I know not all single mothers are like this but I have yet to see a single mother who is the exception to this rule. Oh and single girls with no kids, watch out, Jonny's here lol. I am not an expert nor do I have the experience to give any advice. But a while ago I came out of a serious relationship with a stay at home single mother.

I do agree with some of the items highlighted in this discussion, some. I've learned so much from this relationship, and for a man who is currently with a stay at home mother, I really wish you the best.

Some stay at home mothers are the most loving people you will meet, and when you loved somebody, you will love and accept everything that's part of hers, this includes her children.

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It is a huge step for a single mother to introduce you to her children, and when you enter into a relationship with a single mother, you would be prepared that her children will always be placed before you.

If you really loved her, it really shouldn't matter to you, it is normal for you to accept that, and loved her children as well. I don't know how to explain it, but you just do. When you are a single man, you can live your own life, when you are with a woman, you may still be able to do that, or she might even be interested in joining you.

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But a woman with children would be different, especially if she has children. In a serious relationship, it would be best if you could be there to support her, as it is often very stressful even with just one child, and you need to willing to sacrifice some of your freedom. A single man will need to be incredibly giving, and be very understanding, and patient and be supportive if he wants to be in serious relationship with a single mother.

I've learned a lot from the past relationship. And being with a single mother is the most loving and rewarding experience I've had. When you do get it right, it feels like you are in a loving family, the ones you can only dream about, and see in the movies with the happy endings. But I hope that I won't fall into a relationship with a single mother again, I don't think I can handle it and offer her the things she really needs.

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But if you single men out there who knows what they are doing, then please, they SAHM are absolutely beautiful.

Otherwise I can swear to you, that it is going to hurt you more than it will hurt her. I am sorry and I apologises for anything that any readers may find offensive. I understand that your perspective is coming from a male point of view, but my hope is that most men do not look to what they get or receive from a relationship.

I analogize this with JFKs inaugural speech in with his famous quote: "And so, my fellow Americans: ask not what your country can do for you - ask what you can do for your country. My fellow citizens of the world: ask not what America will do for you, but what together we can do for the freedom of man.

Other people men and women strive for a purpose in life, usually to make it a better place for others. I did not get married or have children until i was My 20s were a decade of adventures, excitement and fun. I was completely self-centered and independent. While i did volunteer and spent plenty of time with nieces and nephews, i did not want to be responsible for anyone else.

I enjoyed relationships at a very shallow level, based purely on a physical connection. I married someone just like me, unfortunately. Physiologically, a woman's brain chemistry changes drastically when she is pregnant and has children. I wasn't satisfied with external pleasure. I wanted to do everything i could to ensure my child had a safe and wonderful life. After three wonderful children, I wanted to not only ensure they had an amazing life, but i wanted to ensure all children in the world lived better lives.

I hoped that my husband would eventually "see the light" and join my larger purpose. Instead, he resented the children for taking away my attention. This led to abuse of the children and I. I tried everything i possibly could to make it work.

However, when he began to hurt the children I left. It has been 11 years since i was divorced. I have had to financially go back to a career track at work as he never really financially stepped up and was mostly unemployed. He even got remarried and had another child, recently divorcing again. He only see them once a year and lives across the country.

Yeah, he's a shit and i made a terrible decision. It breaks my heart that my children do not have the love and devotion of two parents. They are amazing kids. They helped me start a non-profit and we have set up 5 computer labs in poor schools in Guatemala and Peru. My son is autistic and my daughters are ADHD, but they are empathetic and understanding and altruistic. I am in my late 40s now, so i will definitely not be having any more children.

Additionally, there are many men that have gone through life asking what life can give to them instead of what they can give back. Usually when most people reach their 40s and 50s they evaluate what their life has been like and what they have gotten out of it. Short term pleasure pathways aren't as strong anymore. I have been engaged and proposed to a couple of times, though i have not let anyone live with us.

I will only bring someone into my family as a gift. That man will have to offer a lot and be willing to contribute to society as a whole, as well as contribute thanklessly to my children. To be part of a family and part of a child's life is worth more than anything in the world.

When many of these young men look back on their lives when they are 70 and still single, with nothing to look forward to, they will realize that deep connections will be worth more than a trophy wife or a servant.

And, as a side note, women love sex! I had better sex after birthing children than i could ever imagine, and i certainly have more now. If your women are not having sex it is because either you are being an asshole or you suck in bed.

Yeah, anyone that has ever dated a single mom sure knows how that is. Your children suffering from ADHD and autism is the result of living in a single parent home. Peru is right up your alley. I've been there. They are socialists, and just like true commies, like to steal other people's stuff.

I would rather die alone than deal with the day to day bs of dating a single mom again. Thinking about dating a single mum mmmm? Take a look at yourself The odds appear to be seriously against you The sob stories - honest or otherwise are not your problem. Neither are another man's offspring. Go live your life. A mistake avoided is a victory.

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Divorced or widowed mothers bring a level of authenticity that permeates into sexual relationships out of necessity. They don't have time to play games or have a biological clock ticking, thereby pressuring men to get married, they just want something real, whether it's hot sex, companionship, whatever The narcissism and entitlement that is normative for both single men and women is not a luxury that is typically available to single moms.

Discriminating against a woman because she is taking responsibility for child rearing is not a negative, it shows fortitude, resilience and amazing character that many in the "me generation" lack; not to mention unselfishness.

The only constant in life is change, and despite the perceived notion we somehow have control over all the X factors that may enter our lives like illness, death, and other unforeseen consequences, it is a facade So more than half of the commenters will be in this discriminated category according to statistics and judged as unworthy to date; ironically these are also the same habitual daters that have never been responsible for anyone other than themselves If men had to disclose irresponsible sexual practices resulting in abortions, infidelity or abandonment that would be forever in the public view, this would be a very different article.

The take away from this article: women care give negativemen could care less positive. Single moms are the ones left with nurturing life, a noble endeavor that the author clearly lacks the capacity to understand because he has only dated for sport and has never been in love, there is a definitive difference and excluding a potential partner because of false pretenses only limits yourself. My hope is that the author of this "riveting" unsubstantiated opinion piece will experience some future karma bitchslapping and then have to write a mediocre article on his ated status: "why you should give single dads a chance.

When the girl is a virgin a man will go on both his knees for her. When she is single but already had sexual partners a man will go on one knee for her. When she is a single mother Oke seriously. In good conditions i could date and start a relationship. But one problem i had was that if she already has 2 or 3 children and i want 2 or 3 children of my own we end up suporting 6 children in this expensive time I was at school and not the best in relationschips with girls.

I had to teach myzelf. My mother did a great job to make sure i had food on the table. So again respect for single mothers. I did great. She looked at me with sad eyes and told me that her children had the right to have a good father figure in their life. I got a little angry inside because she was right i also felt the need when i was growing up. No no no Let me give you a frank male perspective. Marrying a single mother is like being a cuckold in advance.

On a biological level,the biggest fear men have is unknown parentage. Dealing with a single mother is like playing another man's saved game. It's the most shameful thing a man can do. The solipsism of women is astounding regarding this issue. To her, children are a gift from God. NO MAN wants to raise another man's offspring. No where in nature does this happen. Men will mostly engage with single mothers to gain access to easy sex. Why should he when there are women without kids that can bear kids from his own DNA?

If your ambition is to be a tissue for all her sob stories - then go ahead. People will see you for the sap you are.

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