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My heart goes out to anyone who is still in love with their ex but their ex is already dating someone else. Dumpers often start dating again not too long after the breakup so chances are, you are going to feel insignificant when it happens. Since it can take over 8 months to get over your ex so he or she will likely date someone else during that time span. Does my ex have no shame? Why would my ex give up so quickly and start dating someone else?

She also had a new admirer on Facebook in April. She finally admitted that she went for a motorcycle ride with him. And another.

They did this a few times but she said he was just there to ride with. However, after I made a jealous comment, she broke up with me.

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She told me to move on and be happy. She says she still cares for me and loves me, but the resentment of her living with me was too strong and she would need to work on it. A relationship should be easy. Hard to move on when you are still in love and feel the relationship ended by one comment. She has since let this guy into her place and visa versa despite the health concerns.

So I will do no contact again. Thanks for the insight. Your problem was putting that woman on a pedestal.

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Never ever do that and never ever beg or plead. If she wants to go, then show her the doorZ. Sit back and watch as she comes back. My ex espouse and I were together for 12 years. Around july of she told me her ex boyfriend was trying to contact her and wanted to be friends, in july 14th the talk on the phone for at least 3 hours I researched phone bills later to find out of often they talk late note and texted my mistake now but I found that like that on august 24th she texted that she went to an party on all old friend that reached out for her too, she started talking to all friends, all this friends are common friends with the ex boyfriend, I never met any of them.

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A lot to say in my story. I think she also pushed the last months too so it would be me the one ending the relationship. A week after the landlord called to say they were divorcing too and were selling the house we were renting for 11 years, one after another. She introduced him to our 11 years old daughter around October. Looking for a house to rent for my daughter and her mom. With all this process we were still leaving together till about February They kept talking over the phone and texting.

May came around she finally brought him for the weekend and next weekend she went to his place and goes on like that since them. At the end, yes I still live my ex and I know she did before, I know distance I have to put in between, love myself and grow, but I have nobody to talk, my family was her family only, I dont have relatives here and many of the people i called friends before they dont reach back. No bad thoughts in my mind but misery always bring company. So my ex broke up with me the day before lockdown, we have lived together for 8 months and been together two years.

We had to stay together throughout all this so had to remain friendly for lockdown.

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Sorry to hear about this, Lauren. My ex-wife and I bought a house together which was sold and I moved back in with my parents as well. Maybe we can connect somehow? Hi Zan, thank you for this post, genuinely really helping me in my time of need when I need it.

Today is monday. My now ex girlfriend whom I was with for over a year, came over to my house Saturday with her daughters for a BBQ. I know these things should be enough to kill this for me but I still really love her, on Saturday she was talking about us living together,making plans for our future etc. Any advice on how to end this feeling and move on quicker would be appreciated! I thought this woman was my soulmate and the one, something she always told me she felt about me too!

I recently met my first boyfriend at He was 30, a bit more than five years older than me.

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Due to various reasons, he developed Cirrhosis at the young age of His parents were divorced. Why did I like him? He was determined to get his life back on track.

Before our first time, I asked him to get tested for STDs. He said he would, but assured me he took great care of himself and there was no way anything would ever happen. After my STD confirmation, he finally told me he and his old girlfriend had had issues with sexual diseases.

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We decided to meet on Christmas. He showed up hours late, without even a letter as a present. I asked him to be honest with me, even if it hurt his self esteem.

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I promised I would never judge him. He agreed to try. In my heart, I had kept telling myself that I would only stay by his side until he found some stability. After he found stability, I started to look forward to the future. I believed he would keep the promises he had made to me. Not a single one was kept. He continually told me he wanted to marry me, without ever giving me any way to trust him.

I was asked on a date by a guy I met online. He promised he would heal my scars. He told me he was a virgin. That he had a steady job. That he liked everything about me. On our first date, he pretended to be infatuated with me. In the end, I gave in. The day after we slept together, he ghosted me. Suddenly, without reason. We had just been texting sweet things to each other, and he had asked me to visit his company the next day.

I planned to bring sweets for his coworkers. I really wanted to be a good girlfriend. In the aftermath, I realized there were many holes in his story. Everything he told me turned out to be fake. There were things he said that led me to believe he may be gay.

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I feel so used. My parents are highly religious. I have no one to lean on. That is the reason we broke up. Now after 2 weeks she texts me and says how was i as a girlfriend i told my answer. Then i asked her is she seeing someone else she said kind of. I just wanna say thank you for writing so many amazing articles. I regret that I did not come across this blog sooner when my gf broke up with me 5 months ago. I spent a lot of time being angry and searching answers on what I could have done better.

Your articles perfectly articulated my thought process and has provided me with the necessary direction on how I should move on with my life, all I have to do now is stay strong and discipline to go through this transition process. I was in a relationship with my ex for 7 years same sex relationship. So In total 10 years together, the relationship was all great and all until the 5th year when she cheated on me with another girl, nothing major but texts n etc.

But still cheating. I guess my mistake at the time was to continue with her without actually forgiving her fully. She had promised to not speak to her again but 3 months later she did and things only got worse from there. Fast forward to about 7 months ago.

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She ended things for good. And only about a week later from that I found out she was already seeing someone else.

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The worse part about it all was that it was a guy who had always been on her case and only now she decided to turn her attention to him. Maybe she was already speaking to him, probably was. But yeah so I decided to cut the contact between us since she wanted to move on so quick. I told myself I need my own time to heal, but a month later she contacted me again telling me she was going through something rough and again I let her in and was there for her.

Next thing u know her family has met him, spent Xmas n New Years with him n took him to family parties. I knew that was my queue to leave. So much contradiction. And only a week ago she told me that she has decided to give him a. Should I have done more. What were her true intentions or feelings? Anyway hope to hear from someone Xx. Well where do i start. Well my ex girlfriend broke up with me. Id admit i was a jerk at times.

But it was never intentional. I just wanted her to be safe, ik how she reacts in bad situations, so it worried me to no end not knowing if she was ok sometimes. Along with that came other issues. But in the long run i thought i mad her happy. But a few days before my birthday it all ended and i was devastated. Of course months later im reading all of this, and now im not sure she will take me back. If id have known this information now then, even tho it wouldve hurt me more than it did then.

I would have done these steps. But if everything said here is true then i have no hope. After the break up, i went almost insane constantly trying to see what she was doing and if she was ok. But shes doing things shes never done before like where short shorts and cutting her hair differently. And those were somethings i didnt want her to wear cause i was afraid of guys looking at her and wanting her.

And trying to take her from me. I just miss her so much.

In love with best friend but she just started dating someone else. Any advice? Like I said grew up with a sister with bipolar and I know how bad it can affect someone. Trust me when I say what. If she drops you during a regular date at the movies, or if she declines your candlelight dinner again, and again, then possibly, these are signs she's seeing someone else. You are in a severe problem if she only used to always want to be by your side. However now all she thinks of are exit times away from you. Next, let's consider how you are feeling, and, if you see her acting guilty in many ways. Feelings of .

Today i saw her for the first time since the quarantine and she looks amazing. And since i saw her she opened back up my wounds that i healed over the passed few months. And i feel like a douche bag cause in the mix of all this i have a new girl friend, who i love u dearly. But its not the same. I spent almost 4 years with my ex. We started dating freshman year of highschool.

And broke up my senior year. Since then so many fun and beautiful memories have been made with my ex. Those kind of memories are hard to find, even with my new girlfriend. But the only reason i dated my new girlfriend was so that my ex can be happy, because i had been trying everything and anything to get my ex back except everyting stated in this site so i figured doing my best to move on a heal my broken heart would help fix what i did, and to say the least i dont think it did. And i dont want to break up with my new gf because then she would know why im leaving her.

And im just soo stuck. I have all of thid pressure built up inside of me, and it hurts so bad to think of my ex taking someone knew. But ig she felt the same when i dated my new gf. All i know is that i miss her very much but if not being with my beloved ex makes her happy, then im just going to have to accept it. But if emma chambers ever reads this i just want her to know that im so sorry for everything that ive done. I just wanted you to be happy.

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Thats all ive ever wanted. And im not saying this just to think im trying to win u over some how. Or make me seem like the good guy. I truly mean it i only did this to make u happy and i also did it so that i can heal so i can let u go so that u can live the life i didnt let u have. But if i had the chance to make it all right id take the bullet rn physically and mentally. And to my new gf Mackenzie provost, i dated you one bacause i did love u, u offer many different things that she never offered, but after almost 4 years with her, im going to need ur patience with my ex.

Yes i love u very much but if u only knew exactly the situation i was in you would understand.

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But i dont expect you to be forgiving to me if things go south. But i dont just date to date, there ks a reason i date, its out of love, i never date for anything other than love. Im not saying im breaking up with u, i just need more understanding. And i dont want u to feel embarrassed and look so stupid.

Anyway i hope the person who has read all of this can see my perspective of my break up. Ive been diagnosed with 6 concussions, all 6 have happened with my ex.

A left out other things because i dont want this to go on forever which it has. But i am only stating the truth cause thats all i want people to knowid the truth. Hey bro thanks for sharing with us this story if yours that is similar to mine in many ways. I wish you and anyone reading this peace of mind and a lasting happiness. Bro hug. My insecurities are now kicking in as well because the new girl looks way better than me and all I could think of is how am I gonna be better as well, or make her realise what she had lost.

I know exactly how you feel. Maybe just more compatible for her. Been in this situation for months now. But keep ur head up, focus on urself and love yourself.

Things will get easier day by day. I was dating my ex on April 18 and we were doing good until we lasted like 4 days which was on tuesday and its a long story why we broke up and then i got sad and mad at my self and i went to the bathroom and cried. So I did and went to my room and acted like nothing happened.

I blocked my ex on Instagram and then i felt a guilty feeling. Then later on i decided to unblock him and then i saw his bio and it had S and a ring and i knew that ment he was dating someone else right after me. I felt awful and i cried in the inside. I kept asking questions to my self. The next day i unblocked him that hopefully he would want me back and that he would breakup with her. But it never happened and i almost texted him how sorry i was and what i did to him but i didnt.

After that confrontation, he no longer contacted me. I admit that during that time, i was hoping that he would come back to me. Me and my ex recently broke up, we were together for two years.

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I loved her and I was sad to lose her. But I was really fine with it for weeks after the breakup. Which is totally fine. The dates did help take my mind off of my ex. So that was good. I made the mistake of looking her up on FB and it just brought on all this overwhelming anxiety. I reached out to her only to find out that she had started seeing somebody almost immediately after our relationship ended and that was just a total punch to the gut to hear that.

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The pain cuts really deep. But regardless, the pain is a lot to bear. I do miss her, but it is absolutely time for me to focus my energy on moving on. Anyway, I appreciate others reaching out on here. Stay strong, people! I just experienced my second breakup with my girlfriend of almost 3 years. In that time, we rekindled and accidentally had one bad night where my ex then met someone on a dating site.

We had our discussions over that next month and eventually got back together, but my trust was really broken again complicated, but paraphrased.

I broke about every rule on this site, primarily because she was so confused as to what she wanted I had no idea what to do. It hurt like hell. When i was at my strongest, she came back to the city 1 year later. I tried to avoid contact with her but being in the same group of friends, it was hardly possible. We started talking after that and i started falling for her again. When i confronted her with my feelings, she told me that its a dead end and being friends is the only thing she wants.

A month later, again we were at a party and she got drunk and came on to me again, told me how much she misses me and we hooked up.

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She denied everything the next day as she did not remember anything. I tried to win her back again but as it turned out the result was the same. Now she has started dating a guy she works with and they have been friends for over 6 years.

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So that is not casual at all. I really thought for a long time that she is the one. I have no clue where i am headed. So I would say you should really reflect on the section that mentions how people are selfish. Build respect not only for yourself, but to also instill some form of respect in her too. She may think that you will always cave when she needs you and thinks no form of commitment is necessary to receive the benefits of a relationship. Make her come to you next time.

Unfortunately as with all breakups, new interests really bring complexity.

Jun 28,   My ex is dating someone else already and it hurts. If you see your ex with someone new and this causes you pain, take my words of advice seriously. Go no contact with your ex without delay. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Your ex needs to experience life without you and get hurt before he or she will even think about coming back to you. Ask her what she really means when she says she likes you. Are you a phase? Are you a distraction? Are you a fleeting solution to a permanent problem? Are you her One True Love? Is she admitting her guilt, or proposing to you? Is she flirting with. If she is focused on you, then things are generally fine. Yes, she could be cheating on you or she could be dating other people, but you generally don't have too much to worry about when a girl is into you. Some indicators of whether she's into you: How she reacts when you invite her out; How much she calls and texts.

I s it possible to re-spark the romance? If so see this video. Why else would she be embarrassed to face you for no evident reason? The only possible explanation for it is that she is terrified to tell you that she is not in love with you anymore when she tells you this.

Preventing the subject of separation may be her method of protecting you. Yes, from breaking your heart. Perhaps, she might just be buying time to inform you that she is in love with another guy. She unexpectedly bails out on your very long time tradition of romantic camping in the woods.

If she bails out on you for nearly half-dozen times, you have the right to be suspicious. Making excuses is an indication that she does not want to spend time with you any longer. Next, try to see why moving on, the decision to leave or stay, is in your power of choice. It is indeed heartbreaking to find out that your lovely woman is in love with somebody else. But before you begin placing all the blame on her for falling out of love with you, you should first assess something.

That would be your actions and the important things that you have provided for her. But you can talk to her calmly and lovingly and let her know you are dealing with the infidelity. As well, that you are aware she has cheated on you, and that it terribly hurts you.

Likewise, kindly let her know you are ready to move on in life. Ask her to be honest with you if this affair with another man is what she really wants. This way, when and if you do move forward with your life, at least you will know you addressed this relationship issue in a loving manner.

Yes, and to act from your right-mind will give you peace and happiness on any decision you make from your heart. Keep in mind that you cannot force your love on somebody who does not want to take it and value it.



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